Iris

I’ve been sitting on this one for a while, I guess I’ll complete it and post it…

I’ve been informed that I hurt someone’s feelings.  I’ve reached out to them twice with no response.  It’s not likely that I’ll continue to attempt to get a hold of them, I’ll just assume that they don’t want to talk to me anymore.  I don’t know what it was I did or said.  I don’t know how to find out if they won’t tell me.  I could sit here and make assumptions and hypothesize, but where does that get me?

A person can’t learn from their mistakes if they don’t know what the mistake was.

If it was something I wrote, I write what I feel and I’m not going to apologize for how I feel.  No one should ever apologize for how they feel.  If it’s something I said, I would like to know what it was, so I don’t do it again.  I don’t do things to hurt you or anyone else’s feelings.  I honestly thought we had a great relationship, I thought we could talk to each other about most if not anything.  Is that not the case?

Let me hear your side.  Let me hear what it is I did to hurt your feelings.  Maybe we could work through this before it snowballs into something where we don’t speak for years at a time.

The ball is in your court.

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